“As soon as I stepped foot on the beach, I could feel the stress melt away.”
My freshly tanned friend looks like she’s just returned from vacation. Her golden skin gives it away, but there’s something else too. The tension in her face and body is gone, and her eyes come to life as she describes her family’s short getaway.
Our conversation continues, as we discuss what it is about vacation that makes life so enjoy-able and how we might bring some of the vacation lifestyle home.
We may not be able to bottle the ocean’s negatively charged ions, but I believe we can harness some great life lessons from our time away by looking at some of the most enjoyable facets of vacation!
SIMPLICITY
Vacations are manageable! We have limited clothes, limited stuff, and limited food. The clothes we bring are comfortable, practical, and usually our favorites. We may have a book or two, just enough stuff to meet our needs, and a few diversions. Meals are usually simple and planned or, even better, eaten out!
The key word here is limited. A vacation powerfully reveals how not only are we fine with just a few things, but we’re actually much happier and freer!
EXPECTATIONS
Fun tops our “to do” list on vacation. Our days are designed to meet both our needs and desires. Yes, work has been set aside, and that certainly makes it easier. But there’s something about expecting to enjoy your day and family that positions your attitude to receive good things.
INTENTIONAL REST
Rest finally gets its due! Our days have rest built into them with books, naps, and other leisure. If we stay up late, we can sleep in! For the first time in a long time, we really feel how tired we are, and we rest.
JESUS
Our maker and lover of our souls is found in stillness and deep breaths. On vacation, we slow down enough to see His glory in the sunset, the stars, the waves, the trees. We hear his voice and pleasure in the quiet and the raucous laughter of our loved ones. He reminds us in powerful ways of His love for us and His good gifts.
It’s tempting to believe that it’s the ocean, the condo, or the ice cream every night that makes vacations so magical.
Our hearts yearn and strategize how to get back to that place, until we resign ourselves to the reality that it only happens for a few short days once a year. And we go back to “real life.”
But what if the way of life on vacation is meant to be our reality?
What if the life God promises His children is what we’re tasting when we’re on vacation?
Could it be that what we experience on vacation is not meant to be dessert but our main course?
Ultimately, I believe we find a bit of ourselves again on vacation.
Recently, our family was offered two free vacations . . one in the Florida Keys and another in Puerto Rico! Unfortunately, we can’t take advantage of either offer. I’m tempted to be bummed, but I know the real blessing of a vacation is the mindset and not the location.
As we begin making plans for our upcoming week at the river, I’m excited and looking forward to simple days, fun and rest, and time with family and Jesus.
And today, I’m working on making those things a part of life at home.
I’m linking up with Holley Gerth & Jennifer Dukes Lee!
Beautiful photos, beautiful thoughts, beautiful verses on vacations and rest (intentional!). Learning the 'unforced rhythms of grace' a holy way to live. Thanks for the mini break!
You're so welcome, Sandra! It is holy! Isn't that awesome?!
"Our maker and lover of our souls is found in stillness and deep breaths" Amen! Kim, you write with wisdom and insight here. Our soul's great need for rest can often shout to be addressed. It pays to give attention to its quiet insistence before burden bearing becomes burn-out and carrying on causes collapse. The suggestion of a vacation lifestyle mindset at home is a wonderful idea with better soul rest making more spiritual whitespace for God's grace to enter in. Thank you for these insightful thoughts and beautiful images. Blessings 🙂 x
"It pays to give attention to its quiet insistence before burden bearing becomes burn-out and carrying on causes collapse." That's wisdom, Joy! (And some good alliteration too😉) thanks for reading and sharing!