I hadn’t been at this blogging thing long when I discovered what seems to be an inherent temptation in the blogging world. Comparison.
The temptation to compare is strong whenever someone is pouring themself into something they care deeply about, but what I find unique to blogging is the incredible vulnerability. It feels like walking blindfolded, except instead of not knowing where you’re going, you don’t know if you got there.
Did my message reach the faceless women I’d hoped it might encourage? Did it make sense? Did anyone even read what I wrote?
Just when I was ready to give up for fear of futility, in came a myriad of devices to confirm my worth and that of my words. Comments. Followers. Email subscriptions. Stats that would tell me how many came, what they read, how they found me, and even where they came from! I was just beginning to feel the wind fill my sails again, when I realized, “Other blogs have these nifty devices too.”
SNAP . . I was trapped in the clenching jaws of comparison. I’ve managed to wrestle my way free time and again, but the temptation is there every time I sit down to read another blog.
As I struggled with this temptation, I wrote:
Beginning next week, every Thursday I am going to share with you one of the amazing women I have met through blogging. These are people who have enriched my life with their words. Their blogs are all unique, and I can’t wait to introduce you to them!
My hope and prayer is to create a community here each Thursday where we prefer one another and cheer each other on in a very real and practical way. So be thinking about whose blog you’d like to share and join me next Thursday!
Great idea, Kim! I enjoy reading your insight, heart-felt honesty, and amazing ability to be vulnerable. God bless & keep you. Friend from the past, Rachael
Lovely idea; sharing and building community! Looking forward to next Thursday.
The paradigm shift in your thinking about comparison resonates with me. I will share your words with all the females in my house.
yes, it's important in all areas of our lives, to just rest in the person God created us to be, isn't it? i remember this poem of yours… it's still good. lovely idea for a participation, too.
(ha! one of the comment verification words was "sincerity")
I love reading your thoughts – real, heartfelt, images I can 'see' — reminding of a thought to me long ago: "If you're not there for the puff-up, you won't be there for the put-down"….:) That thought has saved me many times!
Keep on, Kim – I love it!